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Creating Love-Filled Ceremonies

Hello, I’m Fleur

I believe that every life has a story worth celebrating, and every ceremony should reflect the people at its heart.

Life’s most important moments deserve to be marked in a way that helps people feel seen, valued and connected.

I’m a life celebrant based on the beautiful East Lothian coast, creating warm, inclusive and deeply personal ceremonies across Scotland. Whether you’re celebrating a marriage, welcoming a child, marking a new chapter or saying farewell to someone you love, I’ll help create a ceremony that feels genuinely yours.

Every ceremony is bespoke, written from scratch and thoughtfully crafted around the relationships, memories and moments that matter most. Together, we’ll create a meaningful celebration of love, connection and belonging that leaves lasting memories.

How We Create a Ceremony Together

Fleur smiling on a bench in a local garden

My Approach

Creating a meaningful ceremony starts with understanding the people at its heart.

I’ll take time to get to know you and discover what matters most to you, creating a ceremony that reflects your values, personality and the people you love.

My own approach is spiritually rooted, but every ceremony is shaped around your beliefs, wishes and experiences. Whether your sense of meaning comes through spirituality, faith, nature, community or close relationships, I’ll help create a ceremony that feels authentic and true to you.

With a calm, collaborative and supportive approach, we’ll create something that feels natural, personal and deeply meaningful.

Whatever the occasion, I’ll work with you to create a ceremony that feels authentically yours, honouring what matters most and creating moments of connection, meaning and love that will be remembered long after the ceremony ends.

Working with Me

I wrote this poem to capture the spirit of the journey we’ll take together.

POEM: 
Being a celebrant isn’t all about me,
It’s really about you, and us, and we.

You’ll tell me your ideas, wishes and dreams,
We’ll work together to highlight the themes
that are at the core of your unique life’s story,
perhaps courage or hope, and of love, laughs and glory.

One of my joys is when we make a connection,
in shared understandings, being seen with affection.
Each person brings the world their talents and light,
and celebrating each one is a true delight.

We all experience love, hope, joy, pain, and grief,
regardless of our outlook, values, or belief.
And as you open a new chapter, if we stand together
we can make the occasion one that you’ll treasure forever.

Being a celebrant is all about you,
It’s really about letting your love shine through.

About Me

Born and brought up in South Africa to a Cornish father and a mother from Aberdeen, I’ve always enjoyed meeting people from different backgrounds and hearing about the experiences that shape their lives. I’ve been fortunate to call Scotland home for more than half my life and now live beside the East Lothian coast, where beach walks, big skies and beautiful countryside provide the perfect place to pause, reflect and recharge.

Before becoming a celebrant, I spent many years as a primary teacher supporting children and families from a wide range of backgrounds. What I loved most was building relationships, celebrating individual strengths and helping people feel valued and included.

Those experiences continue to shape how I work today. I’m calm, caring and compassionate, and I believe everyone deserves to feel welcomed, respected and able to be themselves during life’s most important moments.

Although I’m an experienced presenter, I never see myself as the centre of attention. Your ceremony is all about you and the people you love and my role is to help tell your story in a way that feels warm, creative and true to you.

Fleur beside the beach

How I Can Help You

Fleur standing with her folder in a cemetery on a sunny winter's day

As a fully trained, insured and experienced life celebrant, I create beautiful, bespoke ceremonies that tell your story, whether that’s:

  • Your love story through a legal marriage, civil partnership, wedding blessing, vow renewal or commitment ceremony.
  • Your story of hope and belonging through a baby naming ceremony, adoption celebration, or ceremony reflecting a new name or identity.
  • The story of a life well lived through a funeral, memorial, burial or celebration of life ceremony.
  • The story of a new chapter through a ceremony marking another important milestone in your life.

Whatever the occasion, I’ll work with you to create a ceremony that feels authentically yours, honouring what matters most and creating moments of connection, meaning and love that will be remembered long after the ceremony ends.

I’d love to hear your story and help you explore what’s possible.