I call myself an independent celebrant, but there are plenty of other labels out there and it can be confusing trying to work out what they mean and which style of celebrant is right for you.
So, here are a few points to help you choose who is best for you and your ceremony…
Civil Celebrants – usually lead personal, non-religious ceremonies and are sometimes also known as independent celebrants.
Humanists or Humanist Celebrants – are completely non-religious, and in Scotland (except for funerals) will ask that you become a paid-up member of a Humanist organisation, as a demonstration that you share the same beliefs and values. Some Humanists will allow a small amount of religious content in the ceremony, but they will not lead or take part in this.
Independent Celebrants – are not constrained by legal, humanist or any particular religious doctrines. Although they may not share your beliefs and values, they will work sensitively to create a ceremony that reflects your beliefs, cultural traditions and personal wishes. Your ceremony could therefore be an entirely non-religious ceremony, or include a hymn, a Jewish blessing, or a Pagan ritual. It’s up to you – and if you wish to honour two spiritual backgrounds, or different cultural traditions these would be woven into your ceremony too.
For weddings and naming ceremonies, independent celebrants also offer you the freedom of the time and venue of your choosing. However, couples choosing an independent celebrant, need to separately arrange their legal marriage or civil partnership at the Registry office, which is often done with two witnesses before their personalised celebratory ceremony.
Marriage Officers – In Scotland, marriage officers work for Registrars and are trained to perform legal marriage and civil partnership ceremonies on their behalf.
Registrars – work in the registry office and will complete your legal paperwork and ceremony to recognise your marriage or civil partnership in the eyes of the law – which is essential! It does, however mean that the vows used are restricted to approved, legally binding wordings. Some registrars offer limited additional options for the ceremony content and venue.
And in addition to all of this, you may find that there are celebrants specialising in a huge variety of diverse areas which fit their personal style, beliefs and values. Whatever you choose, I hope you find the celebrant that is perfect for you and who can respectfully honour your beliefs, culture and lifestyle choices.